Rules and Tips for the Money-Saving Weekend Sport:

You see the signs and if you know the game, you follow them. This is a sport like any other. It requires speed, knowledge, determination and – cash?? 

Termed “Garage Sale-ing”, as it is known to seasoned competitors, it adequately defines this game of buying and selling. Like any other sport, those who are successful veterans arrive prepared each week and usually walk away as winners. You can see them around 2pm on Saturday, a little spring in their step and grinning as they head home with their scores of great deals.

How do they do it week after week – and just what are the rules of this (usually) non-contact sport? Let’s take a look at what the great sale-rs know.

One: Fuel Up: You’ve heard that “Early to bed, early to rise…” saying.  With garage sale-ing, it’s a must. The night before is crucial for vehicle and physical preparation. Making sure that all of your gauges are on “F” for full will insure you an edge over the competition at the first sales. For proper pre-game fueling, fill the car, set out breakfast, pack snacks, a lunch if desired and get to bed early.

Two: In God We Trust: This means carry cash and coin. Exact change speeds up the payment process and enables you to better present your final offer. How can you offer only $5 for a $7 item when you’ve just flashed them a ten or twenty? Cash is good; checks are time-consuming and increasingly unaccepted.

Three: Mind Your Manners: Garage sale-ing is as much of a social affair as it is a sport. Remember those out there are often people you will see again, long past the possible score of a great deal. Good manners and sportsmanship go along way toward netting you not only new treasures, but new friends as well. Be respectful of others’ belongings. Listen politely to them about their prized possessions (and how much they can’t bear to part with them…”.

Make an offer that is reasonable, leaving room for their inevitable rebuttal. If you are a ready, cash-carrying competitor, you’ll win the deals. Fighting over plates or digging through someone else’s stash of finds won’t earn you any points with your fellow sale-rs (neighbors).

Four: Love Thy Neighbors: Those would include the neighbors of those who are holding the sale. Patient courtesy is required with long, narrow driveways. Be mindful of whose lawn you may be parking on. Respect the property of others! Even if it means walking the extra steps up the driveway, instead of across the driveway, do go the extra mile.

Neighbors also include our honorable mail carriers. Please do not park in front of mailboxes. After the sale is over, whomever you are buying from will appreciate a peaceful rest from their undisturbed neighbors.

Five: Map Your Course: I have to hand it to my Dad here. He’s a seasoned sale-r (sailor) through both the high seas and the garage sale-ing game. Dad knows how to map a route and he’s got his map book in the car. (Great maps are found in your local phone directories or by contacting your chamber of commerce).

Dad numbers the sales by time and location (or sometimes by items listed in the ad he’s particularly interested in). Charting a course before you set off saves you time and prepares you mentally for the game ahead. When you know where you’re going, you can get there faster.

Six: Networking, Networking, Networking: Though this “hobby” may be seen as a sport to some, it really is about people helping people. Get to know the folks and let them know what you are looking for. While you are seeking the deals, seek information about what the other sales are like today or about an unknown address. Networking pays here- you may even find your next job, home or best friend while garage sale-ing.

Seven: Know your goals, Seek your Goals (or “Look Quick, Grab Fast!)”: There are sale-rs out there who are very quick on the draw! Some write lists, some take orders and others are seeking specific things (bookworms, antique collectors, handymen, ebay-ers, ect).

Do your homework. When you see something you like, grab it fast! Items move very fast and so should you! By knowing what you’re looking for, you know whether a sale is for you – or whether you should cruise on down to the next one.

Garage sale-ing, whether for sport or for keeping the cost of living within a reasonable budget, is great fun—and adventure. Once you’ve been out there, seeking the treasures and finding great deals, it can become addictive. Garage sale-ing fits in well with the rising popularity of living simple and recycling. Many local organizations also, hold great sales, as fundraising events.

My hometown is home to the best garage sales seen in our region—and your community, as well. Our neighbors hold the best sales—and the best stuff. 

The sale-ing folks believe that perhaps nothing new comes onto our island, we just move it from house to house, from year to year. This can be illustrated by the reappearance of my highchair, coming back into my family just in time for my son’s use – 15 years after my parents sold it at their garage sale.

There are many other stories like ours. Many happy reunions of old things once owned, super deals made and neighbors met when someone else’s discards become someone else’s treasure.

Tips and Links for Buying Second-Hand:

Be advised of Product Recalls and research products you may be looking to buy used: http://www.recalls.gov/ (six federal agencies)

Consumer Product Safety Commission:

http://www.cpsc.gov/

To Find a List of Thrift and Second Hand Stores Near You (and tons of other frugal shopping blogs, links and information) http://www.thethriftshopper.com/

Garage Sale Listings around the country and Garage-Saler Tips:

http://www.garagesaleshopper.com/

 http://gsalr.com/

 Estate Sales (Tag Sales, Auctions and Estate Sales around the Country.  Companies who conduct Estate Sales as well-has a “notify me of local sales” option):

http://www.estatesales.net/

Restaurant.com – Dining Gift Certificates, at a fraction of the cost.  Find your city on Restaurant.com and discover a new favorite dining escape.  Purchase and print your gift certificate, from home, and then go out and enjoy.  Frequent coupon codes, offered via their email updates net you a $25 gift certificate for as little as $2!

Visit the website of your local Radio/TV Stations/Newspapers  Look for “ Half-Price” Gift Certificate Deals or coupons for dining, attractions and more!

Want to Create A Custom Date Night or Day-Out Adventure? 

Start with a little research.  Internet, local libraries, and chambers of commerce are great sources of where to go and what to do in your area.  In the Seattle area (and in many other cities), there are the “Best Places to Kiss” books, and similar which direct you to the best for your time and money.   Ask around, look around and then plan something uniquely memorable.

Need More Sizzlin’ Inspiration? 

Here’s what I found when I googled “Cheap Date Night”:

Redbook Magazine gives you many fun, affordable ideas:

http://www.redbookmag.com/love-sex/advice/43-date-night-ideas-2

Focus on the Family offers ideas for “Keeping the Romance Alive”:

http://www.focusonthefamily.com/marriage/daily_living/keeping_romance_alive.aspx

RomanticLyrics.com offers their Romance on a Shoestring Ideas (and if you need a love poem, romantic song suggestion, or lyrics to a love song- they’re your website.):

http://www.romantic-lyrics.com/ros.shtml

Local phone books, printed community guides and chamber of commerce offices are great sources of information.  Promotion of extra-circular events will be distributed through your child’s school as well.  Contact the office of your city’s parks and recreation office.  Local community colleges, churches, and creative retail stores may also offer programming for families. 

Websites of these organizations will also list event information.  If you’re looking for the nearest scouting troop, boys and girls club or retail franchise activities, check with their national website online.  Entering your zip code can connect you with local chapters and programs.

Community newspapers are an excellent source of community events.  A phone call to a local community resource office or school office can help you find things to do in your community.  When you find this information, consider ways you can help provide this information to other families in your neighborhood.  Flyers, emails, and bulletin boards posted with this information can be a great service to others — and you may make some new friends as well.

Area MOPS, MOMS and other support groups or playgroups are resuming their regular schedule of meetings.  Reach out and find a place to be encouraged.  If you find there is no ”oasis place” for moms or families, start one with a friend.  Beat cabin fever before it starts!  Making an effort to become connected to others will bless you in the fall and winter months ahead.

In our North Whidbey area, we have created an online bulletin-board style community website.  Our goal is to be a resource, connecting people to family fun and more.  MoreFun4Life is a free, one-stop site for all things community:

http://www.orgsites.com/wa/morefun4life

Perhaps it will inspre a similar site in your community.  This website looks at events this week, and is advance notice for events to come in the next month.  We also offer lists of family fun places and community organizations, to close the gap between neighbors.

Where do you go for family fun in your area?